Hello Friend❤️,
It’s still my favourite month of the year and I am loving every bit of it.
I used to think I understood everything there is to “Love” because I hold giving and receiving love in high esteem. In fact, people tell me that I emit love a lot. It is one of my core values. However, when my mentor told me that “Love is not soft emotions”, it dawned on me that I still have work to do when it comes to love.
I have observed that “Love” is a word people use a lot without fully understanding it. As love centered as I am, I have seen myself get irrational at times or even get touchy. This is not love.
I never see myself as someone who has fully gotten it when it comes to “Love”, this is why I would always pray that my love abounds more and more.
I have this ritual of going to the orphanage on my birthdays since I was in 300 level. I would buy stuff for them and also take pictures. I love being with the children, it does a lot of wonder to my soul. I realized that I was particular about the pictures so I could post on social media. This is not love. Love is not self seeking.
I still go to the orphanage but I don’t take pictures. I could decide to take pictures going forward but by then, my motive will not be self-seeking.
1 Corinthians 13 is a part of God’s word I would never get tired of reading:
“Love endures with patience and serenity, love is kind and thoughtful, and is not jealous or envious; love does not brag and is not proud or arrogant. It is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured. It does not rejoice at injustice, but rejoices with the truth [when right and truth prevail]. Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficult times], endures all things [without weakening]. Love never fails [it never fades nor ends].”
In this month of love, ensure you are actually growing in your love walk. God’s desire is for you to be rooted and grounded in love.
Love always❤️,
Naomi.
I was so blessed with this particularly your giving ritual to orphanage on your birthdays, as good as it sounds your giving started as self seeking through posting but now graduated into real love doing it God's way